What is Love???

What is Love???

What Is LOVE ?

LOVE is when my mom comes to me at night & say “ Beta, I LOVE you”

LOVE is when I come back from work & papa says “Beta, late hone wala tha to call kar deta ?

LOVE is when my bhabhi say, “oye hero, ladki wadki patai ke nahi ?

LOVE is when my sister say, “bhai, meri shadi ke baad mujhse jagda kon karega ?

LOVE is when I'm moodless & my brother says, “chal kahin ghumne chalet hai "

LOVE is when my best friends call me & say, “kamine tere bina dil nhi laghta "

That’sLOVE…

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ The Heart of the Women ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

The Heart of the Women.....They are Wonderful

They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.

They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up against injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.

They go without new shoes
so their children can have them.
They go to the doctor
with a frightened friend.

They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear
about a birth or a new marriage.

Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They have sorrow at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think
there is no strength left.

They know that a hug
and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.

Women come in all sizes,
in all colors and shapes.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.

The heart of a woman is what makes the world spin!
Women do more than just give birth.
They bring joy and hope.
They give compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.

Women have a lot to say and a lot to give.

I love Everything About You!!

Top 10 Ways To Make His Family Love You

Top 10 Ways To Make His Family Love You

t's finally happened. You've met the One. And—wonder of wonders—he thinks you're the One as well! He finds you fascinating, beautiful and amazing—but he's not the only person you have to impress. While you shouldn't give up on love just because his mom gives you the stink-eye, chances are your guy would prefer it if you were all one big, happy family. Because, when it comes down to it, do you really want to make him choose sides? (Hint: No.) Thank god you have us. Here are the top 10 ways to make his family love you.

1. Show up.

If you put off meeting his parents, they will assume you're avoiding them. Not only that, but they'll also assume that you don't value family. Uh oh. Cheerfully accept dinner invitations, and take part in regular family traditions. You may hate that annual two-hour round trip to cut down the family Christmas tree, but he's been making that trip his entire life, and he totally looks forward to the apple cider donuts and lunch at Hot Dog Johnny's. If you grin and bear it, not only will he appreciate it, but his family will start to treat you as one of their own.

2. Offer to help out.

Over at their house for a dinner party? Offer to put together cheese platters and/or clear the table. Meeting them at a BYOB restaurant? Bring along that great bottle of Chambourcin you picked up from a local winery just the other weekend. Is his little sis applying to post-college jobs for the first time? Ask if she'd like you to take a look at her resume, or help her with cover letters. They'll love the fact that you're making an effort.

3. Invite them to dinner.

His fam is always inviting you over for dinner. Not only that, but they also send you home with five tupperwares full of delicious leftovers. We suggest you repay the favor, and suggest you and your guy cook them a gourmet meal of your own. Not only will this show them how grateful you are for their generosity, but it will also allow them to see that you're fully capable of someday taking care of their darling, adorable baby boy.

4. Be thoughtful.

Make the effort to remember and honor his family members' birthdays, successes and other milestones with thoughtful gestures or gifts. While a bottle of wine is a cool gift if his parents are really into tastings (pair it with a nice wine journal for extra bonus points!), in any other situation, it's a sign that you're just not trying. Pay attention to their interests and shop accordingly.

5. Show an interest in their lives

This tip above will be way easier to execute if you're already engaging his family members in convos about their hobbies and interests. Is his big sis into cruises and country music? Sit through a slideshow of her vacation pics, or go line dancing with her when she extends the invite. Is his dad a runner? Travel up to Boston to cheer him on when he runs the annual marathon. If you show an interest in them, they'll be more willing to learn more about you, even if your hobbies consist of hoop dancing and sex writing.

6. Control yourself.

OK. Maybe you shouldn't mention the sex writing. At least not at first. Give his family some time to warm up to you before letting your freak flag fly.

7. Really. Control yourself.

n some deep, subterranean level, his mom is well aware that you've already seen each other naked. On a regular basis. But she'd rather put that out of her mind. So don't throw her son's sexual activity in her face while exchanging pleasantries over cups of tea. Put the kibosh on any gratuitous PDAs. Refrain from draping yourself across your man's lap. Save the smooches for later. And definitely don't use any tongue.

8. Accept their advice graciously.

It can be easy to get defensive when his parents give unsolicited advice, but try to understand where they're coming from. Chances are they're doing it because they care, because they have more life experience behind them, and because they truly want to help. Their "meddling" does not necessarily mean that they're passing judgment on you. (Or at least that's what you should tell yourself.)

9. Don't be critical of of your partner.

It can be tempting to take part in the hardcore teasing his family subjects him to, but tread lightly. You could be crossing a major line. When conversing with his mother, especially, try to remind yourself that this woman gave birth to your now-hottie, and has raised him for the past 30 years. If she senses that you are a
threat to her baby, she will cut you.

10. And, for the love of god, don't be critical of them.

If they have religious or political beliefs that are wildly divergent from you own, just…just let it go. If they want to engage you in a discussion, don't hide your opinions, but don't try to convince them they're wrong. A smile and a "we'll have to agree to disagree on this one" will do just fine.

Love hurts so much because

Love hurts so much because we allow it to hurt. It's human nature. Getting hurt is a part of life. Its how you handle the hurt or how you allow it to affect you. When two people are in a relationship there are good times and bad times being in a relationship is a great feeling.

Knowing that you have a person that loves you is such a wonderful thing. But sometimes people put to much faith in other people and then when that person doesn't live up to the other persons expectations then there are a huge amount of disappointment and hurt. Why do we allow other people to control our emotions?

A broken heart really is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you find out somebody that you love, somebody that you gave such a huge part of yourself to betrayed you, is indescribable. You feel this pain in the middle of your chest and it literally just aches. It hurts oh so bad! And then the tears and crying set in. opinion you do need to allow yourself to grieve. You need to accept everything that has happened and then you just need to look inside yourself to find the courage and strength needed to move on. This is so much easier said than done. It is a part of life. One thing we have to learn is when one door closes three more usually open.

Everything happens for a reason . You must be strong and simply commit to yourself.

A few of the following quotes bring out the heartaches caused by love in the most striking manner.

If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have.

All things we go threw; the happiness, sadness, pain and heartbreak make us who we are!

"I don't miss him; I miss who I thought he was."

"Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."

"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.

"What man's mind can create, man's character can control."

One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.

If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to lose it, why is it when we find true love we often don't notice it?
When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.

Where there is love, there is pain.

There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations.

Love letter to an ex-girlfriend

100 Ways to Love your Partner

1. Hug them.
2. Write a love note.
3. Call them at work just to say Hi
4. Give them a foot massage.
5. Tell them a joke.
6. Caress them with slow gentle strokes.
7. Go for a walk with them.
8. Send them a happy gram.
9. Admit your mistakes.
10. Say:I love you.
11. Indulge a whim.
12. Listen to them talk about an interest of theirs.
13. Be trustworthy.
14. Instead of complaining, tell them what you would prefer.
15. Look at them when you're in a discussion.
16. Send flowers.
17. Compliment something they did.
18. Offer to help.
19. Ask them to show you how to do something.
20. Call when you are going to be late.
21. Take them out to dinner.
22. Write them a poem about how special they are.
23. Cut out a cartoon they will enjoy.
24. Ask them what they like sexually.
25. Go shopping together.
26. Take an afternoon drive.
27. Cuddle.
28. Put your arm around them in front of others.
29. Take them out on a surprise date.
30. Do something they want to do.
31. Listen.
32. Plan a candle light dinner.
33. Look at old photos together.
34. Serve them breakfast in bed.
35. Hold hands.
36. Share sexual fantasies.
37. Do a work project together.
38. Rub their back.
39. Take a shower together.
40. Carry their photo in your wallet.
41. Go away together for a weekend holiday.
42. Kiss them.
43. Smile more when you look at them.
44. Go for a bicycle ride together.
45. Surprise them with a special attire.
46. Plan a picnic lunch.
47. Read something together about how to have a better relationship.. .
48. Repeat what they say before answering.
49. Say Good morning first.
50. Ask if they have a few minutes first before interrupting.
51. Send them a card.
52. Surprise them with a gift when its a non-holiday.
53. Cook them a favorite meal.
54. Try a new restaurant.
55. Ask them how they feel.
56. Let them know when you are proud of them.
57. Ask for their opinion.
58. Turn on some romantic music.
59. Dedicate a song to them.
60. Send them a balloon bouquet.
61. Watch a sunset together.
62. Play a game together.
63. Have them teach you something they know.
64. Tell them they have the night off.
65. Go to a movie they select.
66. Ask them for a hug.
67. Wear some new cologne.
68. Take them to Bali.
69. Discuss future plans with them.
70. Ask if you can help when they look sad.
71. Ask them about their dreams.
72. Meet them for lunch.
73. Enlarge a scenic photo of a place you have shared.
74. Give them a gift certificate for their favorite store.
75. Tell them what you like about them.
76. Buy them a new perfume.
77. Take them to a scenic spot.
78. Send them a gourmet gift basket.
79. Send them a joke card.
80. Let them know when you have thought of them during the day.
81. Buy them a toy.
82. Compliment them to their friends.
83. Bring them a thirst quenching drink.
84. Tell them when they look attractive.
85. Send them a post card.
86. Invite them to a secret rendezvous.
87. Give them a massage.
88. Take a lesson with them.
89. Look at photos together of when you met.
90. Plan a vacation with them.
91. Listen openly to their opposing opinion.
92. Buy them a new piece of jewelry.
93. Watch a TV show they like with them
94. Write them a letter.
95. Listen to music with them, such as an old favorite.
96. Whisper sweet nothings in their ear.
97. Tell them what you like that they do.
98. Give a head massage.
99. Invite them to a concert.
100. Let them know you care

####love ur mom...####

Do you know?
a human body can bear only upto 45 Del (unit) of pain.
But at the time of giving birth, a woman feels upto 57 Del of Pain.
This is similar to 20 bones getting fractured at a time!!!!
LOVE UR MOM...
God couldn't be everywhere and therefore he made Mothers...

The Birth of Love

When Love was born of heavenly line,
What dire intrigues disturbed Cythera's joy!
Till Venus cried, "A mother's heart is mine;
None but myself shall nurse my boy,"

But, infant as he was, the child
In that divine embrace enchanted lay;
And, by the beauty of the vase beguiled,
Forgot the beverage -- and pined away.

"And must my offspring languish in my sight?"
(Alive to all a mother's pain,
The Queen of Beauty thus her court addressed)
"No: Let the most discreet of all my train
Receive him to her breast:
Think all, he is the God of young delight."

Then tenderness with candour joined,
And gaiety the charming office sought;
Nor even delicacy stayed behind:
But none of those fair Graces brought

Wherewith to nurse the child -- and still he pined.
Some fond hearts to compliance seemed inclined;
But she had surely spoiled the boy:
And sad experience forbade a thought
On the wild Goddess of voluptuous joy.

Long undecided lay th' important choice,
Till of the beauteous court, at length, a voice
Pronounced the name of hope: -- The conscious child
Stretched forth his little arms, and smiled.

'Tis said enjoyment (who averred
The charge belonged to her alone)
Jealous that hope had been preferred
Laid snares to make the babe her own.

Of innocence the garb she took,
The blushing mien and downcast look;
And came her services to proffer:
And Hope (what has not Hope believed!)
By that seducing air deceived,
Accepted of the offer.

It happened that, to sleep inclined,
Deluded hope: for one short hour
To that false innocence's power
Her little charge consigned.

The Goddess then her lap with sweetmeats filled
And gave, in handfuls gave, the treacherous store:
A wild delirium first the infant thrilled;
But soon upon her breast he sunk -- to wake no more.

●~●~●~Love ,Wealth And Success ●~●~●~

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old
men with long white beards sitting in her
front yard. She did not recognize them.
She said "I don't think I know you,
but you must be hungry. Please
come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.

In the evening when her husband
came home, she told him what
had happened.

"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"

The woman went out and invited the men in"

" We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained:
"His name is Wealth," he said pointing
to one of his friends, and said pointing
to another one,
"He is Success, and I am Love."
Then he added, "Now go in and
discuss with your husband which
one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told
her husband what was said.
Her husband was overjoyed.
"How nice!!", he said.
"Since that is the case,
let us invite Wealth.
Let him come and fill our
home with wealth!"

His wife disagreed.
"My dear, why don't we invite Success?"

Their daughter was listening from
the other corner of the house.
She jumped in with her own suggestion:
"Would it not be better to invite Love?
Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us heed our daughter's advice,
" said the husband to his wife.

"Go out and invite Love to be our guest ."

The woman went out and asked the
3 old men,
"Which one of you is Love?
Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking
toward the house. The other 2 also
got up and followed him.
Surprised, the lady asked
Wealth and Success:
"I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together:
"If you had invited Wealth or Success,
the other two of us would've
stayed out,
but since you invited Love,
wherever He goes,
we go with him.
Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success !!!!!!"

!!!~~ top 10 romantic novel ~ on valentine's day :) ~!!!

Often it's hard to express love...and when words seem not enough to show how much she/he means for you, the right gift will do all the talking. A classic love story is a best option. The hard philosophic stuffs can take a backseat this Valentine's season.


Love Story What can you say about a twenty-five year old girl who died? That she was beautiful and brilliant. That she loved Mozart and Bach. The Beatles. And me... A simple love story told in a wonderful manner. Written by Erich Segal, Love Story is considered one of the most romantic novels of all time. Also, the most gifted book by lovers. The story revolves around the wealthy Harvard grad Oliver and poor girl Jennifer Cavelleri. The famous and the best quote of the novel is: "Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Romeo and Juliet Their names have become a synonym for lovers. This tragic love story written by William Shakespeare tells the story of two young lovers who gets united in death. The feud, separation, misunderstandings...it has got all the elements of misfortune experienced by lovers. "Our sweetest songs are those which tell of saddest thought", and no wonder why people have took the story of these tragic lovers to their heart. The play ends like this: "For never was a story of more woe / than this of Juliet and her Romeo." And never will be any...


Doctor Zhivago Physical reality is far different from psychological reality, and there lies a deep chasm between both which nobody can cross. Who couldn't help falling in love with mystical Doctor Zhivago when you go through the pages of the most passionate and melancholic love story written by Boris Pasternak, which narrates the story of the poet Doctor Yuri Zhivago. Set against the backdrop of Russian revolution, it tells the saga of a man torn between two women, his dilemma and his struggle with the forces of destiny. Later the book was made into a movie by David Lean in which Omar Sharif played the lead role.


Gone with the Wind Gone with the Wind is the one and only novel written by Margaret Mitchell. An all-time classic tale about the spoiled, high-tempered, and strong-willed Scarlett O'Hara and her love for Ashley. The story is set in the background of the great American civil war and also the inner journey of the immature girl and her struggle to come in terms with the realities of life.


Wuthering Heights Wuthering Heights is Emily Bronte only novel that became a classic best seller. The protagonists of the novel are more realistic unlike the romantic heroes. It's about egoistic Catherine and Heathcliff who were too proud to express their true feelings and how they destroy themselves because of that. You can feel that tension of unfulfilled love throughout the story. It's difficult to understand Catherine's love for Heathcliff - which is something not romantic, but unconditional and timeless. As she puts it: "My love for Heathcliff resembles the eternal rocks beneath - a source of little visible delight, but necessary."


The Hunchback of Notre-Dame The Hunchback of Notre-Dame is a novel by Victor Hugo about the love of Quasimodo, the ugly and deformed bell ringer and the beautiful and kind hearted Esmeralda. Quasimodo's selfless nature can be regarded as the most supreme for of affection where love is beyond any physical attractions.


Love in the Time of Cholera Love in the Time of Cholera is a novel by Nobel laureate Gabriel Garcia Marquez. The story is about a man's long wait to get united to his lover. For fifty-one years, nine months, and four days, Florentino Ariza loved Fermina Daza silently. The silent love is amazingly narrated by Marquez...the short and sweet affair. Sometimes love isn't about the time people spend together.


Pride and Prejudice Pride and Prejudice is a novel by Jane Austen. The story spins around beautiful and independent Elizabeth Bennet who deals with the norms of society in her own way. . Who could forget the handsome but highly reserved Darcy and the charming Charles Bingley. The most interesting thing was women all over the world fell in love with the composed good-natured Darcy and there was popular coinage called the "The Darcy Syndrome" much to the envy of guys.


Atonement Atonement is tragic love story written by Booker prize winner Ian McEwan. It's about a girl's effort to make amends for the mistake she had committed as a young girl which in turn had a devastating impact on the lives of two lovers - Cecilia and Robbie. Briony Tallis is haunted by the sense of guilt that makes her seek solace in writing. Her novel is about the story of Cecilia and Robbie and she fabricates an alternate reality where the separated lovers finally meet in the end.


Anna Karenina Anna Karenina is one of the greatest novels written by Leo Tolstoy. The novel begins with the famous quote: "Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." The story is about Anna - the sophisticated and passionate lady and simplistic Levin and the changing lifestyle that cause fissures in the family

Love Blossoms In the Rain

May
the Flowers
of Our Love
Be
as Bright
as the Daisy

Have
the Fragrance
of the Rose

May
it Be
as Soft
as the Petals
as Gentle
as the Rain

as Warm
as the Sun
When
it Falls upon
Our Love

May
it Be
as Lovely
as the Violets
as Deep
as the Blue Sea

To
Never Know
an Ending
In
this Love
We Seed

May
it Always
Be in Blossom
Forever
and a Day

as Tear
Drops Fall
It
Will Rain
on Our Bouquet



One Shower
From
The Heart
Will
Pour
Love Through

One
Care
From You
Will Help
Love Grow

One’s
Love
Will Blossom
Through

One
Bouquet
FROM
You only You.



When I look into your eyes
I can see a love restrained
But darlin' when I hold you
Don't you know I feel the same

'Cause nothin' lasts forever
And we both know hearts can change
And it's hard to hold a candle
In the cold November rain

If we could take the time
to lay it on the line
I could rest my head
Just knowin' that you were mine
All mine
So if you want to love me
then darlin' don't refrain
Or I'll just end up walkin'
In the cold November rain

Waiting For your Love

Love is strong, love is true.
I'm waiting for it, longing for you.
The moon smiles, I see your name in the stars
But, I can't read it, it's still too far.

Destiny holds me in the palm of her hand,
I need relief from this hot burning sand.
I want to hold you, feel your touch,
I've waited so long, this is all too much.

Sweetness abides in the clouds up above,
Carry me there on the wings of your love.
The warmth that comes from the one you love so,
In the dead of winter can make flowers grow.

I have a treacherous road to travel,
Before the mysteries of life I unravel.
But, you'll be with me forever, your love in my heart,

Till the day we meet and from there never part.